Becoming a Strong Lady: the posture of a queen (part 1)

Why good posture is important

Your posture affects how others see you

Your posture plays a major role in the critical "first impression" you will leave well before you start speaking.

Bad posture comes with so many negative associations: weakness, laziness, moodiness, illness, frailty, low confidence, lack of vitality, lack of motivation, etc.

Good posture, on the other hand, is mainly associated with : confidence, poise, dignity, strength, power, elegance, vitality, joyfulness, youthfulness, openness.  Walk to someone with good posture and you are nearly sure to give them a positive first impression.

But posture can not only affect how others perceive you, but also your self-image.

Your posture affects how you see yourself

In a study conducted in 2009 at Ohio State University by professors of psychology Richard Petty, Benjamin Wagner and Pablo Brinol, the researchers held an experiment where some participants were told to slump over their desks, while others were told to sit up straight. Both were asked to write down their qualifications for a job.  The participants then took a survey in which they were asked to rate themselves on how well they would do as a future employee.  The study found that the participants who were sitting with bad posture were less likely to rate themselves in ways that were consistent with what they had previously written about their own qualifications.  The participants who had been made to sit straight, on the other hand, appeared in average more confident about their own thoughts and were more likely to rate themselves in ways that showed acceptance for what they had previously written down.

This study seems to provide another proof that our posture can affect our self-confidence.  You can experiment with the effects of good posture by forcing yourself to stand tall and proud when in a bad mood, tired, shy or nervous.  You are likely to feel a near-instant mood boost.

What is good posture?

If you stand with your chin up and your chest out, you might appear over-confident, but if you hold your head down and hunch your shoulders, you might look self-conscious and broken down.  A good posture is somewhere in between both straight and relaxed.  Good posture is about efficiency: all the joints of your body, from the ankle to the spine in the neck, should be aligned in a way that would allow you to stand and move with the less effort possible. Good posture is what allows ballerina to do complex movements in a way that appears nearly effortless. Good posture is required for sprinters to run as fast as humanly possible.  It can allow you to stand or sit for hours at work without getting a sore neck or back, or to run further and faster with less effort. Below, I listed all the elements of a good posture taking a bottom-up approach.  

Alignment

Do your hips, head, shoulders and ankles line up?
Imagine two lines going from the very top of your head on the sides down to between your feet: these lines should be straight and parallel to each other. Head, shoulders, hips, knees and should ankles line up, the muscles should be loose and in a neutral position. When standing in a good posture, there should not be any kind of tension in any muscle or joint.   

Feet

 

The weight of your body should be evenly distributed between your feet and on each foot between the forefoot and the heel.  The feet should be hip width appart so that your legs form two vertical pillars and the feet should be parallel to each other. 

Legs


The legs should be straight from the ankle to the hip, but not locked at the knee. The knees should be relaxed to avoid hyperextension (see drawing on the left).  The knees should also be the same distance appart as the feet when standing with the feet pointing straight ahead.

Pelvis/Bottom


Your pelvis should be in neutral position whether standing, sitting or riding a horse (see picture above).  Imagine your pelvis as a bucket filled with water to the top. When it is held parallel to the ground (in neutral position), no water would drop, but if it is in an anterior tilt (with your lower back arched and belly sticking out) the water would drop in front of your body. If it is in a posterior tilt (with your lower back flat and belly in), then the water would drop in the back.

Lower Back and Abdomen


When standing with good posture neither your bottom, nor your belly should stick out.

Chest

Stand tall with your chest up and take a deep breath in lifting your ribs away from your ribs, then relax, but keep that feeling of being pulled up by a string at the top of your head.

Shoulders

Your shoulder should be low, away from your ears and back. You do not need to squeeze your shoulder blades together, just to keep your upper-back flat. When your arms are let hanging, they should be at your sides, not in front of you, and the palms of your hands should be facing eachother. 

Head/Neck




From the side, your ears should be above the middle of your shoulders, your jaw should be relaxed and parallel to the ground, and your neck slightly arched back.  When standing with your back against a wall,  the back of your head, your shoulders and your bottom should be touching the wall.

Training for good posture


Practicing good posture is rarely enough to correct habits years in the making.  You might be able to hold that posture for a little while, but you would soon tire because of muscular tightness and weaknesses that do not allow you to hold that posture with ease. 
 
In the next post, I will discuss what should be strengthened and what should be stretched in order to correct the most common postural issues and will share 8 exercises for good posture.

I also do free postural assessments in North Vancouver, West Vancouver, Vancouver and Burnaby.

Inspiring Strong Ladies

In a world where being trashy can lead to fame and vice-versa, it is hard to imagine ladies with class and self-respect as still having a place of influence in this society.

Deep inside, most of us aspire to better ourselves. That is why so many of us go to the gym, buy running shoes, try to eat healthier foods, read self-improvement books, take continuing education courses, etc.  We aim to be the best woman that we can, but inspiring role models are hard to find. It is not that they do not exist, or that they are extremely rare, they are just harder to find than videos of Miley Cyrus twerking (if you do not know what I am talking about, please do not Google it, it would only get you depressed).  I have decided to start this blog by researching and sharing the names and stories of inspiring women and will continue to regularly post about such strong women as I learn about them.

Feel free to share your own stories...

Strong Ladies in History

When looking for inspiration, it would make sense to first look at the many ladies in history who have dared trying to go where no other woman has gone before, to follow their dreams and ambitions, to create their own rules, all while staying true to their values and personal sense of womanhood. Like all human beings, they were not perfect, but they all had highly inspiring qualities and lessons to teach us about being a strong lady.

Click on the pictures to learn more about each of these historical figures in short video biographies:


Catherine the Great  (1729-1796, Russia)                          Joan of Arc (1412-1431, France)


 Emily Carr (1871-1945, Canada)                          Hatshepsut (1508 BC-1458BC, Egypt)         


Inspiring Strong Ladies today

History is full of many more inspiring strong women and so is today, with inspiring ladies in arts, sports, education, business, politics, social activism, or even in their own household.  Being a strong lady is not about doing something for the sake of your public image, but about being the best at whatever you enjoy doing the most and being true to yourself. Here are a few very short inspiring snippets from the lives of these contemporary strong ladies:

Ellen Johnson-Sirleaf (Liberia): With no family connection in politics behind her, she was elected the President of Liberia in 2006, making her the first woman to win a presidential election in Africa and one of the very few female national leaders in the world.

Aung San Suu Kyi MP AC (Burma): This political activist is a Nobel Peace Prize winner who has tirelessly used non-violent resistance against one of the most brutal dictatorships the world has ever seen. Her belief in democracy for the Burmese people got her to be forcefully separated from her husband and children, and to be placed under house arrest for 15 years. 

J. K. Rowling (England):  Harry Potter's author wrote the first novel in the series while mourning the death of her mother, dealing with the divorce from her first husband, and raising her children with limited financial resources.

Carol Lees (Canada): A Canadian woman who, in 1990, refused to fill out her census form. She knew she spent at least 50 hours a week doing housework and simply could not fill the Canada Census form saying she did not work.  She sent the Prime Minister a $95,843.76 bill for three years of housework.

Strong Ladies in our communities

Look around you, talk to your family and neighbours, read the papers and you will likely discover the stories of many more strong ladies around you.  Stories of women who had the courage to change their lives for the better, local heroes, dedicated volunteers, amazing teachers, owners of treasured local businesses, etc. 
Madeline Boscoe is one of six Canadian women to be honoured with the 2011 Governor General's Persons Award, in recognition of her three decades of work to further women's health causes. - See more at: http://www.nsnews.com/news/north-vancouver-woman-wins-governor-general-s-award-1.361690#sthash.9p2zjb5h.dpuf
Madeline Boscoe is one of six Canadian women to be honoured with the 2011 Governor General's Persons Award, in recognition of her three decades of work to further women's health causes. - See more at: http://www.nsnews.com/news/north-vancouver-woman-wins-governor-general-s-award-1.361690#sthash.9p2zjb5h.dpuf

Maureen Lee (British Columbia, Canada) was hiking near her home with her three-year-old child when they got attacked by a cougar. When she saw it attack her daughter, she did not think twice, jumped on the beast and manage to scare it off her daughter, likely saving her life.  He daughter only suffered minor scrapes and bruises.  

Madeline Boscoe (North Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada) is one of six women who was awarded with the Governor General's Persons Award. She was awarded it in recognition of over thirty years spent working on furthering women's health causes. 

She started her career in health as a member of the Vancouver Health Collective and as a registered nurse. Among many other achievements she founded HealthSharing magazine, established the Canadian Women's Health Network, co-chaired a federal panel on assisted reproduction legislation and faught to legalize midwifery in Manitoba.

Harpreet Dhillon (Surrey, British Columbia, Canada) is a grade six teacher who was awarded the UBC Faculty of Education Alumni Teacher Award for her work in bringing social responsibility to her students and the greater student body of her school. She strives to fulfill the philosophy of this quote from Margaret Mead found on her classroom wall, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” The WE team, that she founded in her school in 1999, has 20 students learning about the positive impact of giving and empowering them into making a difference in their communities and around the world. 



Are you aiming to be a Strong Lady? What does being a Strong Lady mean to you?